背包旅行曾经是梦想，testing过一次。。满足了！
辛苦我女儿了^^
Back-packing was once my dream, and I had my dream realized now, am grateful!
Thanks for planning everything, my dear daughters ^^
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On my 1st trip to China, I had been rather thrilled and excited at the idea of boarding a plane, even hoped that the plane wont fly so fast speed so that I can be up in the air for a longer period...^^ (so childish).
But now..."why isnt the plane flying faster? My legs are getting cramps..."
第一次乘搭飞机去中国·，期待又兴奋！幼稚的想要飞机飞慢些，好让我多坐一会儿。。^^
现在呢，“唉哟，飞机：你能不能飞快点儿，我脚麻痹了耶。。”
2011年12月23日星期五
Taiwan 16th -22nd December 2011
I'm home now, at last..^^ Actually I reached home at 11 pm last night,but part of me was still in another time zone. Even this morning when I woke up, I was still in a daze ..not knowing where I was >_<. But now, ya, I'm finally home! o(^_^)o
我终于回来了^^.其实昨晚11时已抵达家门，只是另一半的我还留在另一个时空。今早醒来朦朦胧胧，不晓身在何处。。>_<. 现在，总算魂体合一！o(^_^)o
2011年11月27日星期日
Lauwantong's photo ( mandarin version)
悄無聲息，在困倦中我徘徊，
孤獨的像一個浮雲在那高山上，
蹣跚的我游荡在一個湖泊旁边
夕陽下，湖水就像銀河系里的星星一樣閃閃發光。
... 我看见了。。。
在湖邊，在樹下，
在微風中飄動和跳舞的小麻雀，
满心欢喜，愉乐，
在大自然中纵然孤獨的幸福See more
3 November at 22:06 · LikeUnlike · 1
孤獨的像一個浮雲在那高山上，
蹣跚的我游荡在一個湖泊旁边
夕陽下，湖水就像銀河系里的星星一樣閃閃發光。
... 我看见了。。。
在湖邊，在樹下，
在微風中飄動和跳舞的小麻雀，
满心欢喜，愉乐，
在大自然中纵然孤獨的幸福See more
3 November at 22:06 · LikeUnlike · 1
Lauwantong's photo
Silently, sleepily I wandered,
Lonely as a cloud that floats on
high over the hills,
When I stumble upon a lake
... Glisttening and glittering like stars,
... That shine and twinkle on the milky way,
Under the evening sun.
Besides the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze,
I find Little Sparrow,
Whose heart with happiness fills,
In the bliss of solitude that nature
has for her in store.See more
3 November at 20:00 · LikeUnlike · 1
Lonely as a cloud that floats on
high over the hills,
When I stumble upon a lake
... Glisttening and glittering like stars,
... That shine and twinkle on the milky way,
Under the evening sun.
Besides the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze,
I find Little Sparrow,
Whose heart with happiness fills,
In the bliss of solitude that nature
has for her in store.See more
3 November at 20:00 · LikeUnlike · 1
2011年11月13日星期日
Thinking of You
Thinking of You
I’m thinking of you
With joy and pleasure,
Remembering times
I’ll always treasure.
When I think of you,
My heart is light;
You’re a special person,
A sheer delight.
Thoughts of you cheer me up
Whenever I’m blue;
I’m always happy
When I think of you.
I think of you often,
In the fondest way;
I cherish you more
Than I ever could say.
By Joanna Fuchs
I’m thinking of you
With joy and pleasure,
Remembering times
I’ll always treasure.
When I think of you,
My heart is light;
You’re a special person,
A sheer delight.
Thoughts of you cheer me up
Whenever I’m blue;
I’m always happy
When I think of you.
I think of you often,
In the fondest way;
I cherish you more
Than I ever could say.
By Joanna Fuchs
2011年10月14日星期五
莎莎公主 sha gua
Open your eyes! So the SUN can rise,Flowers can blossom....
Birds can sing, Becouse all are waiting to see your Beautiful Smile
Good Morning.....
打开你的眼睛！所以太阳上升，花儿开......
鸟儿唱，因为所有的都在等着看你美丽的微笑
早晨好.....
⋱ ⋮ ⋰
⋯ ◯ ⋯¨. ︵ ^v^
¨︵¸︵( ░░ )︵.︵. ^v^
(´░░░░░░ ') ░░░)
`´︶´¯`︶´`︶´ .︵.︵.
(˛. *˛*) ^v^
(˛˛. *。)
___Π_____. (˛* ˛*˛* )
............../_______/~＼ |. |
╬╬╬╬╬｜.__田田｜門｜╬╬╬╬╬--╬╬╬╬╬-
☆ ░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░▅▄▃▂
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=260173450685367&set=a.258237454212300.54201.257673444268701&type=1&theater
Birds can sing, Becouse all are waiting to see your Beautiful Smile
Good Morning.....
打开你的眼睛！所以太阳上升，花儿开......
鸟儿唱，因为所有的都在等着看你美丽的微笑
早晨好.....
⋱ ⋮ ⋰
⋯ ◯ ⋯¨. ︵ ^v^
¨︵¸︵( ░░ )︵.︵. ^v^
(´░░░░░░ ') ░░░)
`´︶´¯`︶´`︶´ .︵.︵.
(˛. *˛*) ^v^
(˛˛. *。)
___Π_____. (˛* ˛*˛* )
............../_______/~＼ |. |
╬╬╬╬╬｜.__田田｜門｜╬╬╬╬╬--╬╬╬╬╬-
☆ ░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░░▅▄▃▂
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=260173450685367&set=a.258237454212300.54201.257673444268701&type=1&theater
2011年9月24日星期六
Beautiful Old Lady by Eleanor Rooselvout
I am a Beautiful Old Person
by Eleanor Roosevelt
Many people will walk in and out of your life,
But only true friends will leave
footprints in your heart.
... To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.
Anger is only one letter short of danger.
If someone betrays you once, it is their fault;
If they betray you twice, it is your fault.
Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.
He who loses money, loses much;
He who loses a friend, loses much more;
He who loses faith, loses all
Beautiful young people
are accidents of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.
Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can't live long enough
to make them all yourself.
Friends, you and me....
You brought another friend....
And then there were 3....
We started our group....
Our circle of friends....
And like that circle....
There is no beginning or end....
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
I am a Beautiful Old Person
And So Are You
by Eleanor Roosevelt
Many people will walk in and out of your life,
But only true friends will leave
footprints in your heart.
... To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.
Anger is only one letter short of danger.
If someone betrays you once, it is their fault;
If they betray you twice, it is your fault.
Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.
He who loses money, loses much;
He who loses a friend, loses much more;
He who loses faith, loses all
Beautiful young people
are accidents of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.
Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can't live long enough
to make them all yourself.
Friends, you and me....
You brought another friend....
And then there were 3....
We started our group....
Our circle of friends....
And like that circle....
There is no beginning or end....
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
I am a Beautiful Old Person
And So Are You
2011年9月11日星期日
2011年8月20日星期六
20-08-2011 article from the internet
中国人 ：我要去银行取款。
马来西亚华人：我要去银行'按钱'。
中国人 ：为什么？
马来西亚华人：做么？
...
中国人 ：你很强~
马来西亚华人：你很够力~
中国人 ：明天也叫他一起去吧！
马来西亚华人：明天叫'埋'他一起去！
中国人 ：我很郁闷~~~
马来西亚华人：我很'显'（sien）啊~~~~（'显'比郁闷的境界更高）
中国人 ：你再说我就打你！
马来西亚华人：你再说我就hood你！（有点粗俗的）
中国人 ：你在说什么？
马来西亚华人：你在说sommok？
中国人 ：你不要令我丢脸~
马来西亚华人：你不要'下水'我~
中国人 ：真被你气到…。
马来西亚华人：被你炸到…。
中国人 ：你别乱来~
马来西亚华人：你表乱乱来~
马来西亚华人：我要去银行'按钱'。
中国人 ：为什么？
马来西亚华人：做么？
...
中国人 ：你很强~
马来西亚华人：你很够力~
中国人 ：明天也叫他一起去吧！
马来西亚华人：明天叫'埋'他一起去！
中国人 ：我很郁闷~~~
马来西亚华人：我很'显'（sien）啊~~~~（'显'比郁闷的境界更高）
中国人 ：你再说我就打你！
马来西亚华人：你再说我就hood你！（有点粗俗的）
中国人 ：你在说什么？
马来西亚华人：你在说sommok？
中国人 ：你不要令我丢脸~
马来西亚华人：你不要'下水'我~
中国人 ：真被你气到…。
马来西亚华人：被你炸到…。
中国人 ：你别乱来~
马来西亚华人：你表乱乱来~
article from the internet
中国人 ：你很无聊!
马来西亚华人：你很废
中国人 ：XX你
马来西亚华人：Kanasai（意思是像大便一样，骂人的话）
...
中国人 ：迫切
马来西亚华人：bek chek
中国人 ：我们一起吃这碗面~
马来西亚华人：我们'公司'吃这碗面~（源自马来语的kongsi，就是一起分享的意思）
中国人 ：我们结婚吧！
马来西亚华人：我们结'分'吧！（'婚'字受粤语影响，所以音不标准）
中国人 ：今天的天气很热~
马来西亚华人：今天的天气热到。。。。。。。。。。。。。。~~~~~~~（'到'字要拉～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～
长，然后没有下文了）
中国人 ：哇!
马来西亚华人：哇捞weh!!!!
中国人 ：我受不了他！
马来西亚华人：我behtahan他！See more
4 hours ago · UnlikeLike ·
马来西亚华人：你很废
中国人 ：XX你
马来西亚华人：Kanasai（意思是像大便一样，骂人的话）
...
中国人 ：迫切
马来西亚华人：bek chek
中国人 ：我们一起吃这碗面~
马来西亚华人：我们'公司'吃这碗面~（源自马来语的kongsi，就是一起分享的意思）
中国人 ：我们结婚吧！
马来西亚华人：我们结'分'吧！（'婚'字受粤语影响，所以音不标准）
中国人 ：今天的天气很热~
马来西亚华人：今天的天气热到。。。。。。。。。。。。。。~~~~~~~（'到'字要拉～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～
长，然后没有下文了）
中国人 ：哇!
马来西亚华人：哇捞weh!!!!
中国人 ：我受不了他！
马来西亚华人：我behtahan他！See more
4 hours ago · UnlikeLike ·
article from the internet: the animal story 20-08-2011
The reason birds can fly is because they take themselves lightly..
2011年8月17日星期三
My poem~~
Durians oh durians!
Nobody craves for u, as much as I do...
Be it King Musang of the jungle..
or the Sultan of mana satu negeri...
or my best loved old grandmother..
...and not so familiar grandfather..
to the mysterious D-24, 77, 88 ,101...
to name a few...right down to
3 biji RM10 or 5 biji RM20 and oh...
not forgetting the bamboo leg...
all these...有杀错，没放过！See more
Sunday at 22:50 ·
Nobody craves for u, as much as I do...
Be it King Musang of the jungle..
or the Sultan of mana satu negeri...
or my best loved old grandmother..
...and not so familiar grandfather..
to the mysterious D-24, 77, 88 ,101...
to name a few...right down to
3 biji RM10 or 5 biji RM20 and oh...
not forgetting the bamboo leg...
all these...有杀错，没放过！See more
Sunday at 22:50 ·
my masterpieces~~
莲花·荷花齐齐开，红的绿的bling bling bling:
MC 图片真好看，害我午夜梦徘徊！
相思无从寄，化作屡屡思念 长饶着天长地久！
A narrow back alley, Lined with pretty potted plants;
so clean, so peaceful....where tranquility is in the air,
where the hustle and bustle of the city is afar...
where u can hear the birds chirping in the morning..
and the stars and the moon gazing at u..tenderly~~
溪水清清溪水长，穿过高山到海洋；
哥在田里插秧忙，没妹在河边洗衣裳~
一条溪水长又长，两岸绿林常相伴；
人儿不知何处去，一条舢板是答案！
心湖里，起涟漪；
心湖里，看见你！
MC 图片真好看，害我午夜梦徘徊！
相思无从寄，化作屡屡思念 长饶着天长地久！
A narrow back alley, Lined with pretty potted plants;
so clean, so peaceful....where tranquility is in the air,
where the hustle and bustle of the city is afar...
where u can hear the birds chirping in the morning..
and the stars and the moon gazing at u..tenderly~~
溪水清清溪水长，穿过高山到海洋；
哥在田里插秧忙，没妹在河边洗衣裳~
一条溪水长又长，两岸绿林常相伴；
人儿不知何处去，一条舢板是答案！
心湖里，起涟漪；
心湖里，看见你！
memorable quotes
Dont be sad when someone prefers another over u, cos u cant convince a monkey that honey is sweeter than a banana!
article from the internet : the flower story
It may take only a minute to like someone,
only an hour to have a crush on someone
and only a day to love someone
...but it will take a lifetime to forget someone.
that's so true ^^ But with Flower Story's blessing, everythings will be good !!! :) - Jun
only an hour to have a crush on someone
and only a day to love someone
...but it will take a lifetime to forget someone.
that's so true ^^ But with Flower Story's blessing, everythings will be good !!! :) - Jun
article from the internet : the flower story
We live in the present, we dream of the future and we learn eternal truths from the past."
~Madame Chiang Kai-Shek~
~Madame Chiang Kai-Shek~
article from the internet : the flower story
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow ~ Don't walk behind me, I may not ...lead ~ Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus.
2011年7月10日星期日
article from the internet
【今日閱讀】那大的孩子
昨天MOLLY 要出門上學時, 因弟弟ALLEN 不小心打翻了湯弄髒了她的衣服, 差一點讓她遲到 ....
她有點生氣..... 晚上睡前, 我與她分享了一段網路上流傳的文章, 發生在911 雙子星大廈爆炸案......
我簡單的告訴她這個故事的經過與多少無孤的人葬送在這場災難中 .....
...我想告訴她的是, 有很多人佼倖的逃過這一劫, 是因為生活中一些小事的牽絆.....
有一個老闆因為兒子第一天開學所以他請假 ....
有一個人自認很倒楣因被差去買甜甜圈 .......
有一個人因那一天穿了新鞋, 要上樓時發現腳起水泡, 於是他轉彎到藥局買OK 繃.....
這些人, 因生活中的牽絆而倖存活了下來 .......
於是我告訴MOLLY, 生活中若發生任何小事絆住我們, 我們都不須動怒與抱怨 ...... 我們要心存感謝..... 她點點頭說她懂!!!
但她突然在我枕邊說起了另一場災難 .....
她說: 媽咪,我記得上次什麼大海嘯時, 我聽妳和爸爸說過, 有一個媽媽抱著兩個孩子被大海嘯沖走,最後她選擇放棄那大的小孩,
妳跟爸爸也說,要是你們的話,你們也會一樣, 為什麼?
聽她這樣一問, 我的心一糾, 一陣難過在心底 , 這不是好幾年前發生的事了嗎?
原來大人隨口聊天的話在小孩的心中是留下痕跡的 , 她當時並沒有問我,
但, 我想這一個她不懂的故事, 在她心中必留下小小的陰影 ..... 因為她也是那大的孩子 !
我擁她入懷抱, 我想了很久, 不知該如何告訴她這一個感人又痛心的故事 ....
我不知該如何讓她釋懷一個媽媽是如何的心痛放手那大的孩子 ?
我很認真的告訴她, 因為那個媽媽當一手各抱著一個小孩被大海嘯捲入 ,
當她決定放開一隻手, 是因為她知道唯有兩隻手用力抱住一個孩子才能讓小孩有活著的機會 ,
至於, 她為何選擇放手那大的孩子而抱住僅兩歲的兒子 ?
我很認真的告訴她, 不是因為那媽媽不愛那大的孩子,
而是, 她知道那大的孩子 必有智慧去求生 ,
她知道那大的孩子 可能會聰明的抓住樹幹漂流 ,
她知道那大的孩子 如果漂流到岸邊一定也會想辦法生存 ,
她知道那大的孩子 如果得救一定會告訴別人他的家人是誰 ?
她知道那大的孩子 .... 上帝必看顧.... .......
MOLLY說她聽懂了 ,她問我,那最後呢?那大的孩子有沒有找到媽媽?
我說: 有! 那大的孩子好勇敢, 他被一個澳洲人救起後在醫院找到了媽媽, 一家團圓!!
MOLLY開心的笑了 ,說:那大的孩子好棒呦!!!難怪妳也會選擇放棄我 ........
........ 妳有沒有因為不經意又不自覺的一句話或動作而傷害過小孩呢 ?
其實, 很多小孩的傷害來是父母 ,
一個傷自尊的斥責, 一個動怒的巴掌,
一次無心的棄離, 甚至一個沒有說明的故事,
有的是無心之過, 有的是刻骨之痛, 有的是一輩子難以抹滅的傷痕,
感謝昨晚的分享讓我修復了MOLLY 那大的孩子小小心靈的一個小小傷痕 !
來源：網路
【版主曰】
昨天MOLLY 要出門上學時, 因弟弟ALLEN 不小心打翻了湯弄髒了她的衣服, 差一點讓她遲到 ....
她有點生氣..... 晚上睡前, 我與她分享了一段網路上流傳的文章, 發生在911 雙子星大廈爆炸案......
我簡單的告訴她這個故事的經過與多少無孤的人葬送在這場災難中 .....
...我想告訴她的是, 有很多人佼倖的逃過這一劫, 是因為生活中一些小事的牽絆.....
有一個老闆因為兒子第一天開學所以他請假 ....
有一個人自認很倒楣因被差去買甜甜圈 .......
有一個人因那一天穿了新鞋, 要上樓時發現腳起水泡, 於是他轉彎到藥局買OK 繃.....
這些人, 因生活中的牽絆而倖存活了下來 .......
於是我告訴MOLLY, 生活中若發生任何小事絆住我們, 我們都不須動怒與抱怨 ...... 我們要心存感謝..... 她點點頭說她懂!!!
但她突然在我枕邊說起了另一場災難 .....
她說: 媽咪,我記得上次什麼大海嘯時, 我聽妳和爸爸說過, 有一個媽媽抱著兩個孩子被大海嘯沖走,最後她選擇放棄那大的小孩,
妳跟爸爸也說,要是你們的話,你們也會一樣, 為什麼?
聽她這樣一問, 我的心一糾, 一陣難過在心底 , 這不是好幾年前發生的事了嗎?
原來大人隨口聊天的話在小孩的心中是留下痕跡的 , 她當時並沒有問我,
但, 我想這一個她不懂的故事, 在她心中必留下小小的陰影 ..... 因為她也是那大的孩子 !
我擁她入懷抱, 我想了很久, 不知該如何告訴她這一個感人又痛心的故事 ....
我不知該如何讓她釋懷一個媽媽是如何的心痛放手那大的孩子 ?
我很認真的告訴她, 因為那個媽媽當一手各抱著一個小孩被大海嘯捲入 ,
當她決定放開一隻手, 是因為她知道唯有兩隻手用力抱住一個孩子才能讓小孩有活著的機會 ,
至於, 她為何選擇放手那大的孩子而抱住僅兩歲的兒子 ?
我很認真的告訴她, 不是因為那媽媽不愛那大的孩子,
而是, 她知道那大的孩子 必有智慧去求生 ,
她知道那大的孩子 可能會聰明的抓住樹幹漂流 ,
她知道那大的孩子 如果漂流到岸邊一定也會想辦法生存 ,
她知道那大的孩子 如果得救一定會告訴別人他的家人是誰 ?
她知道那大的孩子 .... 上帝必看顧.... .......
MOLLY說她聽懂了 ,她問我,那最後呢?那大的孩子有沒有找到媽媽?
我說: 有! 那大的孩子好勇敢, 他被一個澳洲人救起後在醫院找到了媽媽, 一家團圓!!
MOLLY開心的笑了 ,說:那大的孩子好棒呦!!!難怪妳也會選擇放棄我 ........
........ 妳有沒有因為不經意又不自覺的一句話或動作而傷害過小孩呢 ?
其實, 很多小孩的傷害來是父母 ,
一個傷自尊的斥責, 一個動怒的巴掌,
一次無心的棄離, 甚至一個沒有說明的故事,
有的是無心之過, 有的是刻骨之痛, 有的是一輩子難以抹滅的傷痕,
感謝昨晚的分享讓我修復了MOLLY 那大的孩子小小心靈的一個小小傷痕 !
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【版主曰】
2011年7月4日星期一
my lady boss
my lady boss said to her husband: dear, i'm 50 yrs old ady, so dont u blame me if i cant help u at the shop....
wonder what will happen when i also said the same:
dear, i'm 53 yrs old ady, so dont blame me if i cant help u sell chicken rice.... lolz! 同人不同命！
i have quite alot in common with my lady boss: she's the youngest of the family, and the apple of the eye of her mom; I'm the only daughter among my five brothers. we both were 千金小姐 when we were young:十指不沾阳春水。only after marriage did our fate both take the same turn...work as never did before.but she's so much better as compare to me...sigh! 先甜后苦！认命吧！！
wonder what will happen when i also said the same:
dear, i'm 53 yrs old ady, so dont blame me if i cant help u sell chicken rice.... lolz! 同人不同命！
i have quite alot in common with my lady boss: she's the youngest of the family, and the apple of the eye of her mom; I'm the only daughter among my five brothers. we both were 千金小姐 when we were young:十指不沾阳春水。only after marriage did our fate both take the same turn...work as never did before.but she's so much better as compare to me...sigh! 先甜后苦！认命吧！！
2011年7月2日星期六
没有女佣的日子
没有女佣的日子。。。嘿嘿，esp weekend! up and down , up and down, running , walking...as fast as my two feet will carry me. u never believe i'm that old ady, when u saw me working. lady boss said she couldnt walk much. true, she's 3 yrs my junior but i'm more "agile" than her. 2 weeks and i can feel my pants getting loose, tho i'm trying to have supper every night, not wanting to lose weight too much. oh , what a hectic day today.! the tot of working the next day make me shiver, as always.
no mood to write...too lazy...too boring...too sienz...
no mood to write...too lazy...too boring...too sienz...
what now?
what to write? the feeling is still there.dunno how to suppress, really not a good sign. how long now? shd be 2 weeks.. refused to hv anything to do with them, just keep quiet, keep mum...silence is golden.
tho at cold shoulders, still feel good after seeing the two making up. just wonder how long my "air" will last? fogot all the teachings of budhha..
放下，放下，放下。。。let go, let go, let go...
sigh! sienz!
tho at cold shoulders, still feel good after seeing the two making up. just wonder how long my "air" will last? fogot all the teachings of budhha..
放下，放下，放下。。。let go, let go, let go...
sigh! sienz!
2011年6月25日星期六
MeiFong Loh
永遠最疼我最愛我最懂我的始終還是我最愛的媽咪。。。MeiFongLoh posted this on her wall...
envy....when can my daughters say this to me too? perhaps i'm not qualified...sigh! not a good mother i thought myself to be...
envy....when can my daughters say this to me too? perhaps i'm not qualified...sigh! not a good mother i thought myself to be...
2011年6月24日星期五
down and troubled
feeling down and troubled...
when u r down and troubled, and u need some love and care;
and nothing, nothing is going right;
close ur eyes and think of me, and soon i will be there;
to brighten up, even ur darkest night.
u just call, out my name;
and u know, wherever i am,
i'll come running, to see u again...
winter, spring, summer or fall;
all u have to do is to call;
and i'll be there...
to see u again...
like this song at this moment, cos i'm feeling down and troubled too. dunno where to place all my sorrows, sigh!
what is the cause of my worries? no maid !
when u r down and troubled, and u need some love and care;
and nothing, nothing is going right;
close ur eyes and think of me, and soon i will be there;
to brighten up, even ur darkest night.
u just call, out my name;
and u know, wherever i am,
i'll come running, to see u again...
winter, spring, summer or fall;
all u have to do is to call;
and i'll be there...
to see u again...
like this song at this moment, cos i'm feeling down and troubled too. dunno where to place all my sorrows, sigh!
what is the cause of my worries? no maid !
2011年6月23日星期四
不求回报？？？
Am I really not asking for anything?it's always mentioned that parents never ask anything in return...
But I felt that I am not that kind; i want to ask sth in return. But when i cant get what i expected, i was disappointed. deep down in my heart, i'm grumbling...
From a wee sperm and ovary, from fusion to expecting, from 10 mths of pregnancy , from morning sickness to delivery....from wee baby to toddler, to childhood, eteenager...to adult...all bear by the moms...no wonder they say: mothers know best!
知女莫落母，他们的一一举一动，I can sense it.But really , 一举一动， everything cant escape a monthers'eyes...
I know the reason why u escape this weekend...I know , but i dont blame u, cos I love u~~i shouldnt asked for more....
But I felt that I am not that kind; i want to ask sth in return. But when i cant get what i expected, i was disappointed. deep down in my heart, i'm grumbling...
From a wee sperm and ovary, from fusion to expecting, from 10 mths of pregnancy , from morning sickness to delivery....from wee baby to toddler, to childhood, eteenager...to adult...all bear by the moms...no wonder they say: mothers know best!
知女莫落母，他们的一一举一动，I can sense it.But really , 一举一动， everything cant escape a monthers'eyes...
I know the reason why u escape this weekend...I know , but i dont blame u, cos I love u~~i shouldnt asked for more....
2011年6月20日星期一
Random~
so sienz....nothing to write , nothing to see, nothing to comment...
boring....
well , my maid quit...so, i gonna be superwoman again.actually i have been complaining i have put on weight; now i have this chance to slim down.with only 2 pairs of hands working,running in and out, sweating profusely...like sauna...
oh, sien....even writing this is also sien, nothing to write. for goodness sake, stop typing...!so much so for the moment, no mood...
boring....
well , my maid quit...so, i gonna be superwoman again.actually i have been complaining i have put on weight; now i have this chance to slim down.with only 2 pairs of hands working,running in and out, sweating profusely...like sauna...
oh, sien....even writing this is also sien, nothing to write. for goodness sake, stop typing...!so much so for the moment, no mood...
2011年5月28日星期六
growing up
when my children were still small, how i hope they would quickly grow up...
they can bath themselves; they can feed themselves, they can go to toilet themselves, can do homework themselves.....at the time, a friend said: u still need to have 10 more years before u r free of them. Yes, i waited and waited and waited till the 10 years passed....then they're able to feed ,bathe, got to toilet and did homework themselves...From kindergarten to primary, to secondary, to college and universities... My right hand burden is off, then came the right hand burden: I invested in their education。Ah big girl went to a local college (Southern College) and the younger two went to Taiwan. 中国文化大学 and 环球科技大学。It's a lump sum sending them abroad and hope they will treasure this chance of education. At least I will have no regrets whatsoever regarding their education. I did what i could. The only 内疚 is not having to send ah big girl oversea too. to make up for her , pay for the down payment for her car.
Now , my big girl is working in sg and has just started on her new job this month with a satisfatory salary!
Lolz! All to soon, my babies are all grown ups now.
Little do i realised that when i had wished that the 10 years will passed by quickly, so that they can be dependent on me, I AM GETTING OLD TOO! this reality doesnt dawn on me before, ever....I never knew that when my babies grew up, I grew old too...>
they can bath themselves; they can feed themselves, they can go to toilet themselves, can do homework themselves.....at the time, a friend said: u still need to have 10 more years before u r free of them. Yes, i waited and waited and waited till the 10 years passed....then they're able to feed ,bathe, got to toilet and did homework themselves...From kindergarten to primary, to secondary, to college and universities... My right hand burden is off, then came the right hand burden: I invested in their education。Ah big girl went to a local college (Southern College) and the younger two went to Taiwan. 中国文化大学 and 环球科技大学。It's a lump sum sending them abroad and hope they will treasure this chance of education. At least I will have no regrets whatsoever regarding their education. I did what i could. The only 内疚 is not having to send ah big girl oversea too. to make up for her , pay for the down payment for her car.
Now , my big girl is working in sg and has just started on her new job this month with a satisfatory salary!
Lolz! All to soon, my babies are all grown ups now.
Little do i realised that when i had wished that the 10 years will passed by quickly, so that they can be dependent on me, I AM GETTING OLD TOO! this reality doesnt dawn on me before, ever....I never knew that when my babies grew up, I grew old too...>
2011年5月26日星期四
all my life's a circle...
今日閱讀】我們能擁有孩子多少年？
by 閱讀 on Friday, 27 May 2011 at 12:51
3歲，他去上幼兒園了，看著他小小的堅強的背影，心中又喜悅又有點小小的心酸。
離別了一整天，孩子看到你高興得奔跑過來，撲在你的懷裡。
跟你說：媽媽，我想你了。那一刻，抱著孩子就像抱著了整個世界。
6歲，他上小學了，孩子終於走進校門，這是多麼值得紀念的事情，
孩子的人生從此翻開了新的篇章，卻沒想到，這也是孩子離開我們的第一步。
他已經對與你分開一天習以為常了，而且他喜歡每天去學校，這是他更喜歡的生活。
甚至，他有時還會說：媽媽，在家好無聊，沒有小朋友和我玩。
12歲，他上初中了，甚至有的開始上寄宿學校，一個月或者幾個月回一次家，見上一次面。
他們開始不再依賴你，甚至，他們喜歡和你對著看。
你想幫他們做點事情，他們說:媽媽，我自己來吧。突
然覺得這句話讓我們覺得好失落，孩子是不是不再需要我們了？
18歲，他離開你去上大學，一年回來兩次。
回來的好幾天前，家裡的冰箱就裝不下了，為他準備了各種各樣他喜歡吃的東西。
可是一回來打個照面，他就忙著和同學朋友聚會去了。
從此，你最怕聽到的一句話是：媽媽，我不回家吃飯了，你們自己吃吧。
大學畢業後，孩子留在了遠方工作，一年也難的回來一次了。
好不容易回來一趟，幾天就走了。
你最盼望的就是孩子的電話，希望，孩子對你說一聲：媽媽，我很好，你保重身體。這樣就足夠了。
孩子結婚了，回家的時間有一半勻給了你的親家，孩子回來的更少了。
你已經習慣就老兩口在家了，但是，你最希望聽到孩子對你說：媽媽，今年過年我回家過啊！
當孩子又有了他們自己的孩子，你已經不再是他們的家庭成員了，
他們的一家三口（或一家n口）裡，已經不包括你們了。
而我們。 。 也慢慢的習慣了這樣的日子。
只是習慣在閒來無事的時候，經常翻翻相冊，
看看我們自己的一家三口，無論孩子身在何方，
他卻永遠是我們家庭中無可取代的一員。
是啊，其實當孩子在身邊的日子，我們是多麼幸福。
可是有時我們卻還會抱怨。
抱怨為了培養他，花費了太多的精力與金錢...
可是，如果你想想，10多年後，就算你想要，也沒有機會了。
孩子會不停的長大，過了這個時期他就再沒有這個時期的習性。
你是不是常常在他斷奶後懷念餵他吃奶的日子，
可是那時你卻覺得好累好辛苦好厭倦。
是不是常常看他以前吃手的照片覺得好可愛，
可是你曾經卻為要不停的給他洗手而煩惱透了。
是不是在他褪去童聲後，特別想念他曾經奶聲奶氣的聲音，
可是他以前撒嬌的時候你卻很不受用。
是不是當孩子去上學後你特別懷念他黏在你身邊的日子，
可是以前你卻總在想他要什麼時候才能去上學啊。 。 。
時間無法倒流，過去了就只能永遠過去了。孩子能呆在身邊的日子是多麼難得與寶貴。因為這一點，我更加的珍惜與孩子相處的每一刻，也讓我無論遇到什麼，都心存感恩。
謝謝上天給我這麼一個孩子，讓我分享與見證他成長的每一刻。無論帶給我多少困難，煩惱，甚至挫敗，無論讓我失去多少睡眠，時間，金錢，精力，我仍然豁達，因為，這都是上天的恩賜。
當他在身邊的每一天，我都會讓他覺得幸福，也是讓我們都有一個美好的回憶。
我不會給他太多壓力，束縛，更不會給他牽絆，阻擾，但是我會適時管教，
也會做量力而行的投資，因為我有責任與義務教會他生活的本領，
好讓他來日自由快樂的飛翔。同時，我也會告訴他，就算所有的路都行不通時，
還有一條路你可以暢行，那就是回家的路。 。 。 。 。 。
好好珍惜身邊的每一個人
原文作者：不明
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珍惜苦難→只有痛才會在記憶裡留存
珍惜歡笑→只有笑才能忘卻生命的痛
珍惜身邊人→因下一秒不一定在
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by 閱讀 on Friday, 27 May 2011 at 12:51
3歲，他去上幼兒園了，看著他小小的堅強的背影，心中又喜悅又有點小小的心酸。
離別了一整天，孩子看到你高興得奔跑過來，撲在你的懷裡。
跟你說：媽媽，我想你了。那一刻，抱著孩子就像抱著了整個世界。
6歲，他上小學了，孩子終於走進校門，這是多麼值得紀念的事情，
孩子的人生從此翻開了新的篇章，卻沒想到，這也是孩子離開我們的第一步。
他已經對與你分開一天習以為常了，而且他喜歡每天去學校，這是他更喜歡的生活。
甚至，他有時還會說：媽媽，在家好無聊，沒有小朋友和我玩。
12歲，他上初中了，甚至有的開始上寄宿學校，一個月或者幾個月回一次家，見上一次面。
他們開始不再依賴你，甚至，他們喜歡和你對著看。
你想幫他們做點事情，他們說:媽媽，我自己來吧。突
然覺得這句話讓我們覺得好失落，孩子是不是不再需要我們了？
18歲，他離開你去上大學，一年回來兩次。
回來的好幾天前，家裡的冰箱就裝不下了，為他準備了各種各樣他喜歡吃的東西。
可是一回來打個照面，他就忙著和同學朋友聚會去了。
從此，你最怕聽到的一句話是：媽媽，我不回家吃飯了，你們自己吃吧。
大學畢業後，孩子留在了遠方工作，一年也難的回來一次了。
好不容易回來一趟，幾天就走了。
你最盼望的就是孩子的電話，希望，孩子對你說一聲：媽媽，我很好，你保重身體。這樣就足夠了。
孩子結婚了，回家的時間有一半勻給了你的親家，孩子回來的更少了。
你已經習慣就老兩口在家了，但是，你最希望聽到孩子對你說：媽媽，今年過年我回家過啊！
當孩子又有了他們自己的孩子，你已經不再是他們的家庭成員了，
他們的一家三口（或一家n口）裡，已經不包括你們了。
而我們。 。 也慢慢的習慣了這樣的日子。
只是習慣在閒來無事的時候，經常翻翻相冊，
看看我們自己的一家三口，無論孩子身在何方，
他卻永遠是我們家庭中無可取代的一員。
是啊，其實當孩子在身邊的日子，我們是多麼幸福。
可是有時我們卻還會抱怨。
抱怨為了培養他，花費了太多的精力與金錢...
可是，如果你想想，10多年後，就算你想要，也沒有機會了。
孩子會不停的長大，過了這個時期他就再沒有這個時期的習性。
你是不是常常在他斷奶後懷念餵他吃奶的日子，
可是那時你卻覺得好累好辛苦好厭倦。
是不是常常看他以前吃手的照片覺得好可愛，
可是你曾經卻為要不停的給他洗手而煩惱透了。
是不是在他褪去童聲後，特別想念他曾經奶聲奶氣的聲音，
可是他以前撒嬌的時候你卻很不受用。
是不是當孩子去上學後你特別懷念他黏在你身邊的日子，
可是以前你卻總在想他要什麼時候才能去上學啊。 。 。
時間無法倒流，過去了就只能永遠過去了。孩子能呆在身邊的日子是多麼難得與寶貴。因為這一點，我更加的珍惜與孩子相處的每一刻，也讓我無論遇到什麼，都心存感恩。
謝謝上天給我這麼一個孩子，讓我分享與見證他成長的每一刻。無論帶給我多少困難，煩惱，甚至挫敗，無論讓我失去多少睡眠，時間，金錢，精力，我仍然豁達，因為，這都是上天的恩賜。
當他在身邊的每一天，我都會讓他覺得幸福，也是讓我們都有一個美好的回憶。
我不會給他太多壓力，束縛，更不會給他牽絆，阻擾，但是我會適時管教，
也會做量力而行的投資，因為我有責任與義務教會他生活的本領，
好讓他來日自由快樂的飛翔。同時，我也會告訴他，就算所有的路都行不通時，
還有一條路你可以暢行，那就是回家的路。 。 。 。 。 。
好好珍惜身邊的每一個人
原文作者：不明
【版主曰】
珍惜現在→因上一秒已不在
珍惜苦難→只有痛才會在記憶裡留存
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珍惜身邊人→因下一秒不一定在
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2011年5月15日星期日
My Ah Big Girl
My daughter Ruixin was a chatterbox!! when she was still a child! Her laodou would always said her: talk, talk , talk all the time><.
Indeed, that's my ah big girl..From the minute she woke up, she's none stop talking; telling her own stories or the famous "ten thousand whys" 十万个为什么”。
On seeing the running tap, she would ask: why was there water coming out from the wall? is there water inside the wall? and another: on a black out night, she's ask: can the 地主 see anything? why dont we lit a candle so that he can see clearly too?
when i tried to answer her, then she would ask again why would this or why would that, until I was speechless, not knowing the answer! there are still so many questions of humor that i had forgotten after such a long time. Even in the car, she's also non stop talking...untill she fall asleep...><
The only time when she's most quiet (not to mention sleeping) was when she's sick. I remember once she had chicken pox...where she's so weak and feeble and could only sleep the whole day. not even the strength to talk tn. Poor dear!
She's very sociable too. she would take a chair and sat by an uncle in the shop and chat with him; and with anybody who had time for her.
but , who would have thought that her 1st day at kindergarten ended up crying. she was "chased" out of the classroom cos she kept crying and it broke my heart when i later went to fetch her to see her crying alone outside the classroom. todate, i still rmb the teacher who said she needed to start lessons on the 1st day of school! Of cos, i told the principal requested to change class.
and tn before this, when she was only 2yrs old, i had my 2nd daughter. everynight she would went home with her laodou, whereas i stayed at my mom-in-law's house for confinement. Fearing that she would cry without me by her side, I let her have the long sleeve pyjamas that i used to wear. usually, when i hold her for drinking milk, she would used her little thumb and forefinger to gently "rub" the cloth. thus this pyjama of mine became her "baobao'. even after a yr, she'd grown so used to it that she refused to let me throw it away. I guess it must be my scent and it kept her addicted to it><
Time flies, and my big girl is now above 20. She just celebrated her 2x birthday. I didnt know what to get her for present and now i supposed this can be a present from me to her. Just wanna tell her that no matter how old she is, she is still my little baby' and I LOve U, my ah big girl.
Time flies, and my big girl is now above 20. She just celebrated her 2x birthday. I didnt know what to get her for present and now i supposed this can be a present from me to her. Just wanna tell her that no matter how old she is, she is still my little baby' and I LOve U, my ah big girl.
2011年4月30日星期六
放下，放不下
there's a heavy load on my mind, if i cant get it off, it will be there until i got an answer to it. i just cant learn to take things easily and that's why i had depression, and my "other half" made things worse for me. what and how, am i going to do now? how long must i wait till i get the answer? amituofo help me please!
2011年4月29日星期五
my 13 dot d assistant...
being in the food business means u cant do without an assistant.
after 3 yrs of being in service, my able assistant quit and i had a hell time trying to find one as capable as her.
my recent one has a sour face and behaves rather childishly. she believed that nobody can take her place and that's why she 's so arrogant. always the same threat: i want to quit, u go and find another one. she forgot who's the boss. unfortunately, we really cant do without a helper.she was with us now for...3months, tn quit and tn join again after new yr and is now 3 months with us again. "13 dian" was nicknamed to her by uncle coffee.
just now had a call from her, saying she sprained her leg and might not be able to work tomorrow. when my dear told me the call from her, i can felt my heart dropping to the ground. i feared she might quit again. "fortunately", she's just calling to say she might have to be off 2morrow. but tomorrow is weekend! oh dear me... i need to be a superwoman again!
dear god..i just cant do without an assistant...amituofo...
after 3 yrs of being in service, my able assistant quit and i had a hell time trying to find one as capable as her.
my recent one has a sour face and behaves rather childishly. she believed that nobody can take her place and that's why she 's so arrogant. always the same threat: i want to quit, u go and find another one. she forgot who's the boss. unfortunately, we really cant do without a helper.she was with us now for...3months, tn quit and tn join again after new yr and is now 3 months with us again. "13 dian" was nicknamed to her by uncle coffee.
just now had a call from her, saying she sprained her leg and might not be able to work tomorrow. when my dear told me the call from her, i can felt my heart dropping to the ground. i feared she might quit again. "fortunately", she's just calling to say she might have to be off 2morrow. but tomorrow is weekend! oh dear me... i need to be a superwoman again!
dear god..i just cant do without an assistant...amituofo...
2011年4月24日星期日
"open eyes wide-wide" Ba jiu gimgim!
what title shall i put down here? later then, when i think of one....
The local place of interest that i want to go now:
1. Cameron Highlands
2. Lembing and Panching Hill
3. Pulau Redang, Pulau Tioman, Pulau Perhentian...
by the way, my friends are going for mountain climbing in Lembing this coming Labour Day....sigh...
no hope of going along...
but I promise myself; when all my daughters start working, then i wont care whether it's weekends or public holidays or whatever...I'll be sure to put aside my work and go off for HOLIDAY!!!!
Yeah!
but right now, I can only "open my eyes wide wide" and watch other people having their great times....
yes...so this shall be the theme of my post...
The local place of interest that i want to go now:
1. Cameron Highlands
2. Lembing and Panching Hill
3. Pulau Redang, Pulau Tioman, Pulau Perhentian...
by the way, my friends are going for mountain climbing in Lembing this coming Labour Day....sigh...
no hope of going along...
but I promise myself; when all my daughters start working, then i wont care whether it's weekends or public holidays or whatever...I'll be sure to put aside my work and go off for HOLIDAY!!!!
Yeah!
but right now, I can only "open my eyes wide wide" and watch other people having their great times....
yes...so this shall be the theme of my post...
丰富的想象力
I always let my imagination runs wild, so much so that I rather "admire" myself for being so "creative"!!
Gimme a query and u'll never guess what i can come out with! Sometimes I thought myself to be a detective....like Sherlock Holmes...wakakaka... looking for clues...guessing...imagination running wild...
but very often I always jump to the wrong conclusion...><!!!
Gimme a query and u'll never guess what i can come out with! Sometimes I thought myself to be a detective....like Sherlock Holmes...wakakaka... looking for clues...guessing...imagination running wild...
but very often I always jump to the wrong conclusion...><!!!
2011年4月17日星期日
religions...buddhist or christian?
dajie said xiaogu wanted to join the christian....got a shock!
never knew that xiaogu made some christian friends...perhaps she's too lonely....
with mom- in-law gone, only her good for nothing (oops, too harsh) hubby, with face as black as a wok...still, she got her two precious baby...
like myself, when my daughters are still small, and had to take them to work, cos cannot afford nannies...
everyday after work, got to take care of everything, from household chores to bathing them...
when they attended primary, every night i'm the 陪读妈妈...
daytime working, nightime teacher...until late into the night for them to finish their homework....sometimes so tired that i fell asleep with my head on the table...
looking back at it then, i admired myself for being so 伟大><, maybe being young tn was an advantage...sometimes wonder how i went thru those times...不堪回首！somemore with my hubby being a
male chauvinist p....
never knew that xiaogu made some christian friends...perhaps she's too lonely....
with mom- in-law gone, only her good for nothing (oops, too harsh) hubby, with face as black as a wok...still, she got her two precious baby...
like myself, when my daughters are still small, and had to take them to work, cos cannot afford nannies...
everyday after work, got to take care of everything, from household chores to bathing them...
when they attended primary, every night i'm the 陪读妈妈...
daytime working, nightime teacher...until late into the night for them to finish their homework....sometimes so tired that i fell asleep with my head on the table...
looking back at it then, i admired myself for being so 伟大><, maybe being young tn was an advantage...sometimes wonder how i went thru those times...不堪回首！somemore with my hubby being a
male chauvinist p....
2011年4月16日星期六
Martin Luther Kings
Behind every succussful man stands a woman.
It it wasnt been for Rosa Parks, who would have knew Martin LUther Kings?!...American renowned 民权斗士 was assassinated in 04-04-1968
Rosa Parks was a black woman. In thoses days, the blacks were lower class citizens. A black needed to give seat to a white while on a bus! But this Rosa Parks was put to jail because she refused to abide by the law, and this triggered off the fight for human rights . Martin was elected to represent the blacks.
The blacks united and boycott the bus. They would rather walked for 2 hrs to work and voiced their protest by upholding their campaign for as long as 382.
Finally, from history, we knew Martin won the case and was awarded the Nobel Prize, but was unfortunately assassinated in yr 1968.
United we stand, divided we fall!
Where in our country is our Martin Luther King?
It it wasnt been for Rosa Parks, who would have knew Martin LUther Kings?!...American renowned 民权斗士 was assassinated in 04-04-1968
Rosa Parks was a black woman. In thoses days, the blacks were lower class citizens. A black needed to give seat to a white while on a bus! But this Rosa Parks was put to jail because she refused to abide by the law, and this triggered off the fight for human rights . Martin was elected to represent the blacks.
The blacks united and boycott the bus. They would rather walked for 2 hrs to work and voiced their protest by upholding their campaign for as long as 382.
Finally, from history, we knew Martin won the case and was awarded the Nobel Prize, but was unfortunately assassinated in yr 1968.
United we stand, divided we fall!
Where in our country is our Martin Luther King?
2011年4月10日星期日
bon vovage, my little one...
by now, u must still be at some thousand feet above sea level... aboard a plane on your way back to Taiwan.
Ive got used to it, or, at least I thought so...yesterday and even this morning, i feel alright。I supposed with the IT now so advance; on fb or phone call, or webcam...so handy... there's nothing to feel so depressed.But, why was it that after work, on my way home, tears well up my eyes uncontrollably....so suddenly...
Dear, u must take care of urself, so as not to get me worried, take care of ur personal belongings too. You are already a big girl now, must have a sense of responsibility...mom will think of a way not to miss u too much ><
:Just like before, whenever i started missing my babies, I will say to myself: : " IF YOU ARE HAPPY, SO AM I". 你快乐，所以我快乐....Love you...
Ive got used to it, or, at least I thought so...yesterday and even this morning, i feel alright。I supposed with the IT now so advance; on fb or phone call, or webcam...so handy... there's nothing to feel so depressed.But, why was it that after work, on my way home, tears well up my eyes uncontrollably....so suddenly...
Dear, u must take care of urself, so as not to get me worried, take care of ur personal belongings too. You are already a big girl now, must have a sense of responsibility...mom will think of a way not to miss u too much ><
:Just like before, whenever i started missing my babies, I will say to myself: : " IF YOU ARE HAPPY, SO AM I". 你快乐，所以我快乐....Love you...
2011年4月5日星期二
Que Sera Sera..
my daughter present job is very simple, salary meagre and not much off day. hard to take leave too. So she went to interview another job. much to her amazement, she got what she had expected for her salary. tho stated negotiable, the manager din even bother to negotiate the salary with her and promised what she had written down in the resume. of cos she's delighted! but now she got butterflies in her stomach; she's afraid of office politics.actually there are not many in the office, so i suppose there wont be any problem. Main thing is the job wont be as easy as the previous one. but the present job holds no future, whereas this job is more challenging and can learn more. dear, take the challenge and Go Ahead! Remember the song Que sera sera? what will be will be...the future not ours to see. be more responsible, persevering , take things at its stride... So dont u worry ur pretty head over this. 冲呀！ mom is with you!
2011年4月4日星期一
gratefulness.....感恩
heard news that one monkey of mine had minor stroke, and later a major stroke! He was only 30++. I din know the rest of the story, cos i had this story told by my hubby, and he got this story from another person who had business relations with him.
End of March, one customer of mine suddenly passed away...暴毙！
1st of April, Aprilfool day, who could have played such a joke...another monkey passed away again!
All of them so young! just past 30 and 40!
from then on, before sleep and after waking up, 1st thing: BE GRATEFUL THAT WE ARE STILL ALIVE!
感恩我们还活着！
End of March, one customer of mine suddenly passed away...暴毙！
1st of April, Aprilfool day, who could have played such a joke...another monkey passed away again!
All of them so young! just past 30 and 40!
from then on, before sleep and after waking up, 1st thing: BE GRATEFUL THAT WE ARE STILL ALIVE!
感恩我们还活着！
2011年3月27日星期日
看我还敢鸟人吗？！
some 20 yrs ago, I rejected the offer of a credit card by a manager of a bank. To date, I'm still cardless. So when i went to apply for one, its for the convenience sake of booking plane tickets for my daughters. So, when after one full month of waiting, and was told that the person in charge clean forgot to submit my application, I @￥#%……#！！！I was all armed and black face and demanded to complain the the head.I can felt tension built within my body when i was all tensed up, ready like a cat waiting to pounce on the mouse. I waited for almost 45 mins and my hubby waited in the car with the engine on. See? the 坏处of getting angry: waste my energy, waste my 好细胞， waste my time, waste petrol and i also forgot to buy the things i wanted to buy.When i got into the car, i told my hubby, i wouldnt want to 鸟人 again, cos its too精神虐待for me. I felt bad after 鸟人and, i tot: If my daughter was to make such a mistake, I d also hope the other party will just point out to her , instead of scolding or reprimading her. so when the irresponsible guy phone me at night to tell me that he had found my app for, i apologised to him instead., and he, apologised to me too. That settled everything. I can feel the load off my mind, and I can breathe easily again.
看我还敢鸟人吗？！
看我还敢鸟人吗？！
2011年3月8日星期二
处女作
抱着误打误撞的心，乱乱按，看看可不可以为自己开个blog。mmm, 现在算不算成功了呢，我也不知道。下次我又该如何寻回这一面呢？唉，反正空闲得很，随随便便写几句，然后看看是否能寻回。
本想叫ah big girl 为我开一个，她总是多多借口，老是叫我写notes好了，说要开个blog很麻烦。算了，求人不如求己！若成功了，可向他炫耀炫耀！ 可是，好像还有很多东东我不明白；like how to have some beautiful background...and , what is 标签？虽然自认kindergarten毕业了，可还有好多好多我不明白之处。若能成功开个blog，可算是个大跃进了吧！so much so for my 处女作。Hope to see "U" (my blog) again!
本想叫ah big girl 为我开一个，她总是多多借口，老是叫我写notes好了，说要开个blog很麻烦。算了，求人不如求己！若成功了，可向他炫耀炫耀！ 可是，好像还有很多东东我不明白；like how to have some beautiful background...and , what is 标签？虽然自认kindergarten毕业了，可还有好多好多我不明白之处。若能成功开个blog，可算是个大跃进了吧！so much so for my 处女作。Hope to see "U" (my blog) again!
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